The most discerning gentlemen contact me, because for them, confidentiality and safety are very important.​  When your job is high profile or you don't want to compromise your life, you have to select a provider who is professional.​  
 

You have two options: a provider who screens or one who does not.  Sometimes people confuse the idea that not screening will keep them "safer." I feel it is the opposite: a provider who screens will keep you safer.

Providers who screen show a level of professionalism, exclusivity, and care for their safety. 

The traits of professionalism:

• an established history

• good reviews

• a website

• regularly-updated social media

• regularly posting photos

• requiring screening 

Do you want to see someone who will see just anyone? Someone who throws caution to the wind? There is a good argument to be made that choosing a provider who has a barrier to entry makes sense in many ways.

You want to meet a sexy provider, not the law...
LE doesn't require screening.

Only real providers, concerned with their safety, require screening. 

I'm no expert, but I highly doubt the law would spend years on one profile... for the sake of time and to maintain the integrity of their endeavors.

An established history (reviews and social media) point to a real provider. 

Posting new photos regularly, and over the course of years, is a hard thing to fake. People change over time--their hair changes lengths, sometimes color changes (especially women!), and you can see this through photos on social media. A personal website can sometimes show historic record of photos, but social media timestamps cannot be changed and are therefore more trustworthy.
 

Someone who is on P411 is icing on the cake. P411 is an anonymous system that shows you that providers have met other admirers. Those admirers are vetted by employment verification and provider references. 


You obviously don't want to be a crime statistic...
Thieves don't require screening. 

Going back to professionalism, this is key for selecting a safe provider, because there are some people whose only intent is theft.

The key is having good reviews. Some people argue reviews can be faked, but it is not easy to pull off when a reviewer has an established history himself. 

Yes, someone can get away with bad behavior for a period of time. But at some point, it will come out in a review. That's why I encourage everyone to write a review if someone has outright scammed them.
 

You don't want confidentiality issues...

Reaching out to the wrong ad (someone lacking the traits that point to a professional provider) could cause issues, yes. But real providers don't typically act in a way that would compromise their reputation; they are 100% confidential. Those who are unprofessional or threaten someone's confidentiality won't be using the same name for long. 

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For me, screening is how I mitigate risk. Whether you are on TV or simply don't want to ruin your reputation, I am a professional secret-keeper. My four years of being a reputable provider point to that. Keeping the same name is something that can only be done when you maintain professionalism.

If reputation is important to you, we share that in common.